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Real quick… Have you ever felt fear or nervous during any of these activities:
(Even if it’s just a little)

  • Confronting someone
  • Approaching beautiful women
  • Bungee jumping
  • Playing an extreme sport
  • Interviewing for a position
  • Asking a girl out
  • Giving a speech in front of a large group
  • Being put on the spot
  • Skydiving
  • Emergency Situations

If you answered yes to any of those activities and you’d like to increase your confidence, keep reading...

We've discovered the "Real Secret" to conquering fear and exploding confidence:

Hey man, I’m Matt.

And right now I’m going to show you simple, proven steps that my clients and I personally used to get rid of anxiety and replace that with grounded confidence.

I’m about to reveal a little known mind hack to TURN OFF FEAR in the moment so you can stay calm and confident.

And this has NOTHING to do with affirmations, visualizing, NLP, Hypnosis, changing your body language, pumping yourself up in front of the mirror or any of the other confidence techniques you’ve already heard about. Those methods don’t conquer fear at the source, they’re just like bandaids for the problem.

I’m talking about little-known techniques that are scientifically proven to hack your body’s nervous system and decrease your overall fear and anxiety. This is a game changer and if you’re a man that wants more confidence, listen up because basically, I’m giving you balls of steel.

You see, our company conducts workshops all over the world helping men to succeed with women and dating and we’ve done live workshops in over 40 countries. We’ve trained hundreds of men and 90% of those guys had some level of anxiety with women.

So we’ve become experts at helping guys conquer anxiety and explode with confidence - FAST.

We’ve had guys trembling with fear at the thought of approaching a girl, and within minutes, they’re confidently talking to her. That’s because we know what we’re doing.

And this doesn’t only help you become confident with women, it will help you be confident in all aspects of your life… because we’re conquering fear at the source.

Look, I dealt with fear and anxiety too. That’s why I’m so passionate about what we teach in this program.

The reason most guys still get affected by nerves and anxiety, is because they don’t know about hit yet. So let’s dive into the specific of how this works...

So what’s the real cause of fear and why is that some guys experience more anxiety while some guys seem naturally confident?

This boggled my mind for so many years. I saw guys that were completely unaffected by fear or anxiety. They could jump out of a plane without hesitation. They could approach the hottest girl with surefire confidence. They just oozed confidence without having to do “confidence boosting” exercises. They just seemed to naturally have it.

Here’s why… The part of their brain that controls emotions is stronger.

With a strong mind you can control your emotions, your thoughts, and the feelings in your body.

It’s that simple. They have a better ability to control their mind and body during “high pressure” situations.

We can actually see the difference when we look at brain scan images. People with better mind-body control have smaller amygdalas. This is the part of the brain that releases fear into our nervous system. A smaller amygdala means they are less responsive to fearful situations.

And if you experience more anxiety than you’d like, it’s just because a certain part of your mind is underdeveloped and weaker. (Note: This has nothing to do with your level of intelligence or problem solving skills).

But here’s the good news…

Breakthrough scientific research has proven that certain exercises, strengthen your mind, decrease the size of your amygdala* and therefore make you less sensitive to fear and anxiety.

These exercises strengthen your mind to “detach” from the “fight or flight” response. Anxiety and fear doesn’t trigger easily!

You see, there’s a concept of the brain called neuroplasticity. It means that the composition of your brain, evolves over your lifespan, evolving and adapting to certain situations.

That’s why some people experience anxiety all the time. Their daily habits reinforced their need for a larger amygdala and to be “alerted of danger” sooner. But you can train your mind to stay calm as well.

Neuroplasticity is similar your muscles when you go to the gym. When you work a certain muscle group consistently, those muscles get bigger. When you stop exercising a muscle group, those muscles shrink.

And the news gets even better – once you know what to do, confidence becomes your default behavior! That means you can access confidence and detach from fear whenever you want… without even consciously thinking about it!

Think about it – if you start out being able to only curl 15 pounds… and you start curling heavier and heavier weights… it’s not going to take long for that 15 pounds to feel like a feather.

That’s how some guys endure the most grueling situations imaginable without flinching…

And it’s how you can approach any girl – no matter how jaw-droppingly gorgeous or “out of your league” she is – without hesitating for even a moment… and without any of the mental or physical symptoms of anxiety that used to absolutely paralyze you!

Now, I don’t want you to think that the techniques I’m talking about involve some special skill that takes years to develop… or that only work for a select few guys who have some special sort of super-confidence to begin with.

In fact, they’re really nothing difficult at all. With even just one of the techniques, you can start smashing fear and anxiety today… and within just a short time, you can have the cool, relaxed confidence you need to master any situation.

You remain in total control!

It sucks when the fear is so strong it’s paralyzing. I personally know how hard it can be to get it to go away. Don’t worry, fear is just another emotion and just like any other emotion, you can control it if you know what you’re doing.


Taren AA, Creswell JD, Gianaros PJ (2013) Dispositional Mindfulness Co-Varies with Smaller Amygdala and Caudate Volumes in Community Adults. PLoS ONE 8(5): e64574. doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0064574

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Here’s our simple 3 Pronged Approach to Rid Anxiety and Explode Confidence

1. Develop Jedi-like Mental Strength to calm the mind get grounded quickly. (Mind-Body Training)

With a strong mind, you can practically TURN OFF FEAR.

Recent scientific studies show that certain mindfulness exercises help control our fear center of the brain (the amygdala).

Have you noticed how Buddhists monks are always so calm and carefree? That’s because they have the mental strength to not let anything faze them.

Dispositional Mindfulness Training was developed by an MIT professor after dissecting the science behind many meditation practices. This strengthens the mind and control over your emotions, fear, and limiting thoughts.

This type of training is quickly becoming the go-to tool for psychologist and doctors to help patients with anxiety, depression, and other stress related illnesses.

2. Reset your nervous system and reprogram your mind.

We’re tackling fear at the source not just the fear of one specific activity.  We want you to stay grounded no matter what comes your way. Whether it’s a life threatening emergency situation, or you’re approaching the most beautiful girl in the room.

We’ll use a few different exercises to reset your mind and nervous system to feel less anxiety overall. One of these exercises takes one minute and feels like you’ve been meditating for one hour. Professional athletes do this regularly.

3. Systematic Desensitization to conquer fear, one step at a time.

This is where we apply your new skills of mind-body control. Systematic desensitization is a type of behavior therapy used in the field of psychology to help effectively overcome phobias and other anxiety disorders. Basically, we’ll help you face your fears, but in baby steps.

When we combine this with the first two techniques, activities that were once fearful, barely feel out of your comfort zone. We’ll expand your comfort zone, one step at a time.

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Everything you need to know has been condensed into this 10 Day Plan:

So, let's recap what we've learned so far:

  • The fastest way to overcome fear— increase confidence, and develop jedi-like mental strength, is to use certain mental training exercises.
  • Your sensitivity to fear or anxiety is caused by an overactive amygdala; which has been shown to decrease with certain mind-body exercises.
  • The problem with most “confidence boosting techniques” or “fear” remedies, is that they only tackle one fear or situation. We’re attacking fear at the source… helping you face any intense situation.
  • We’ve been applying these techniques for years with students in our Advanced Boot Camps and now you can get them yourself in Balls of Steel.

I can’t take all the credit for this system

My co-creator, Aaron, and I spent YEARS researching and testing the best methods to help our clients overcome fear and anxiety.

We’ve seen what works and what does work and it has taken us a long time to figure out. For Aaron, this was a particularly transformational journey. He had clinical level of anxiety that plagued him for the first 24 years of his life. If you see him now, you’d have no clue.

This training is comprised of the best techniques from….

  • Sports psychologists on how they train extreme athletes to stay composed while performing dangerous feats,
  • Buddhist monks on how they stay in a zenlike state at all times,
  • Elite Freediving training on controlling the nervous system and slowing down the heart rate,
  • Advanced meditation practices,
  • Neurolinguistic Programming,
  • Clinical research on mind-body awareness training to decrease fear and develop mental toughness
  • MIT professor and his discoveries for reducing stress in the mind.

Don’t worry, we’ve simplified everything down to the best of the best.

Go it alone, and you will end up confused and frustrated.

We've seen people try and do it on their own without our "users guide" Balls of Steel.

The results are NOT pretty.

“Building mental strength” is not all there is to it. People see how easy it is, and some assume they can just do it by themselves, without the instructions and specifics that come in the Balls of Steel Course.

Well, they end up pretty confused most of the time, still having tons of anxiety. That's because Balls of Steel is highly specific. We also explain everything in detail so you know exactly what to do.

Would you start investing money in the stock market after watching the movie "Wall Street"... and think you knew what you were doing? Of course not. This is no different.

Let us guide you. You’ll save tons of time and frustration.

This is not for everyone.
Balls of Steel Is WRONG For You IF:

  • You think "simple" means "no action taking". Dream on. You have to actually apply what we show you. Don’t worry, the simple exercises only take a few minutes a day.
  • You have been diagnosed with a mental condition that requires medical attention.
  • Or, you are just one of those guys who will buy the program and never open it. Please, don't waste your money if that's the case. However, if that IS the case, just realize your anxiety will never improve if you don’t take action.

This is NOT just another “Confidence Boosting Guide” filled with techniques you’ve already heard about.

We’re giving the absolute best techniques to explode confidence and conquer fear.

The core of this has NOTHING to do with affirmations, visualizing, NLP, Hypnosis, changing your body language, pumping yourself up in front of the mirror or any of the other confidence techniques you’ve already heard about.

Those methods don’t conquer fear at the source, they’re just like bandaids for the problem.

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Here’s what you’ll discover in Balls of Steel

  • A 10 day plan to conquer fear and explode confidence. The simple exercises can be done in less than 30 minutes each day...
  • A step-by-step method to overcoming approaching anxiety for good, as well as all social anxiety...
  • A 60 second technique to reset your nervous system and feel like a powerhouse. Do this right before you start your day or right before you go out...
  • How to strengthen your mental toughness so that you can face any fear or obstacle…
  • How to stop the “negative thoughts and excuses” from overriding your mind…
  • “The Power Switch” A simple 7 second technique to give you confidence on demand, when you need it in the moment...
  • How to stop your emotions from controlling you - this overreacting is hurting your relationships without you even knowing...
  • The biggest mistake guys make when trying to overcome anxiety and what to do instead…

Plus, you get the Confidence Cheat Sheet

This is everything in the 10 day course simplified and accessible for you if you need to reference the material. Use this as you go through the program.

And the Balls of Steel Mental Trainings – MP3

This is a guided mental training regiment that you can use on a daily basis to develop and maintain your peak confidence.

It takes less than 10 minutes to complete and will prime you for whatever the day has in store for you.

This audio alone is worth the investment of this program.

Give me 10 Days and I will crush any approach anxiety you have

Balls of Steel

10 Day Plan: Explode Confidence while Conquering Fear and Anxiety.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What makes "Balls of Steel" different from other programs?

This is the only program that helps you control ALL fears. We’re using advanced mental training to give you power over your mind and body. Negative thoughts won’t be overpowering anymore. The uncontrollable physical nerves will no longer paralyze you. You’ll be grounded and calm no matter what situation arises.

Is it really only $37?

I know what you mean, because we personally spent years and thousands of dollars finding the best techniques to help with anxiety and confidence.

Here’s the deal. It’s only $37 if you take action right away and get it before the time runs out. If you hesitate, it returns to full price. (Think of it as your first exercise in not hesitating).

Is this just generic advice on "body language" and “visualization techniques"?

Not at all. In our live Boot Camps, our students don't get results from generic advice. They'd be lost and confused if we did that. This is the best in modern day psychology that has taken years to research and test.

Is there a guarantee?

Yep…all our products have a 60-day, no-questions-asked guarantee. In other words, if you aren’t happy for any reason, just let us know and we’ll give you your money back. We obviously don’t think it’ll come to that, but if you’re even the least bit worried if this will work for you, then put your mind at ease. You either get the results you want or you get your money back. It’s as simple as that!

How long will it take to get access to this guide?

Immediate. The videos and trainings are waiting for you in our private members area. Your login and access information will be sent to the email address you provide.

Does this work for older guys? 

Absolutely. We have successfully coached men as young as 18 and as old as 64. Not only that, we’ve helped personally coached men in over 40 countries. These mind-body principles apply to all men and women regardless of age, language, and culture.

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